Stop the stress!
Many women find middle age very stressful for a number of reasons. Often we still have children in the home or grand kids to care for. Many mid-lifers are caring for an elderly parent while working full time jobs. And there often isn’t time to work out.
The biggest problem isn’t all of the things we need to do and all the people we take care of, but finding time to take care of ourselves.
It is a proven fact that stress will hurt your health and it could even shorten your life. In order to be healthy you really need to change your behavior and take care of yourself.
But really if you don’t find time to take care of yourself you are going to find your self burnt out or worse.
There are a few things you can do right now to start taking care of yourself.
1. Learn to say No or ask for help. I had been giving of myself so much that I found it really hard to simply say no. But to my surprise, my family was more than happy to give me a break.
I learned it is perfectly fine to take a night off from cooking or caring for the home. I would order carry out or let everyone “fend for themselves” and I would relax in a hot bath.
2. Schedule time for yourself every day. Make time to work out or take a walk or spend some time doing what you love and enjoy.
3. Feed your sexual appetite. Sexual intercourse as well as the snuggling and affection that goes with it is a great stress reliever. And I promise you, you will feel much better later.
What are some of the ways you relieve stress in your life?